instagram.com/p/BDHHYnMNVsC/#mayaraefe instagram.com/p/_uAjw-tVgJ/#mayaraefe instagram.com/p/BB7cSTwtViG/#mayaraefe instagram.com/p/BDJoXYwNVrG/#mayaraefe instagram.com/p/_z4H_vNVn-/#mayaraefe instagram: Learning to Love Everything You Are with Body-Positivity Activist @mayaraefe “#MyStory is a series that spotlights inspiring women in the Instagram community. Join the conversation by sharing your own story. To see more of Mayara’s photos, follow @mayaraefe on Instagram. (This interview was conducted in Portuguese.) “#MyStory is about loving yourself, your heritage and your body. It’s about survival and having the freedom to be who you are.” —Mayara Efe (@mayaraefe), a body-positivity activist and plus-sized model from São Paulo, Brazil. “For years, I suffered from depression. As a black, curvy and gay…
#WANTyourself
If you’re in the LA area, come see these body image activists (our own co-founder Lynn Chen included) for the first Women Against Negative Talk Panel! Tickets are available here – use code WANTlynn for a discount!
A Reader of Mixed Races Shares Their Struggle
Coming from a Taiwanese father and Spanish mother has never been simple at all. Mixed languages, mixed families, and of course, mixed principles, cultures, and values. While one side says something, the other contradicts it. Respect to both sides was instilled in me since the moment I could utter a word, so of course it was difficult to know who exactly to listen to. In come my parents: my father was more easy going than my mother, though both had their moments like every parent, or person, does. Food was always either Chinese or Spanish, or sometimes both, and always one of the main dishes was rice, be it white or a combination of vegetables and rice. Whenever family, of either side, came over, it was always …
Podcast 7: Eating Recovery Day
We’re doing something a little different with this podcast episode – as part of ERC’s first ever Eating Recovery Day on May 3rd, we are answering this question: “If you could go back and talk to yourself at the beginning of your recovery journey, what would your wiser self say to your younger self?” You can hear Lisa and Lynn talk about this question below, or by downloading the episode here. Find out how other bloggers are responding to this question this week on their sites: Day 1, Monday, April 25th — Karla Mosley is a NEDA Ambassador who speaks out about her recovery from an eating disorder. She’s also an actress on the TV show The Bold and the Beautiful. Karla will be writing on the NEDA…
Thanksgiving Goodness Without the Guilt
Thanks to the National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) for asking me to blog for them! You can check out my first post here, just in time for this week’s holiday. Happy Thanksgiving.You can find Does Every Woman Have an Eating Disorder? Challenging Our Nation’s Fixation with Food and Weight on Amazon (as a paperback and Kindle) and at BarnesandNoble.com.
Holiday Book Contest!
It’s hard to believe that my book has been out for six months. For almost eight years, I toiled away on this blog, and then, this past June, the book finally came to print.In celebration of this half-year publication mark, and in keeping with the holiday spirit, I am going to give away two signed copies of Does Every Woman Have an Eating Disorder? to my loyal readers. It’s this community that inspired me to write the book and that continues to motivate me to post regular content on this blog.To enter the contest, either email me privately (drstaceyny at gmail dot com) or comment below with your DEWHAED New Year’s resolution. No diet talk, no rigid exercise plans, no weight-loss promises – only …
Is DBT Effective for the Treatment of Eating Disorders?
My article appeared originally on Recovery Brands’ Pro Corner site.Dialectical-behavioral therapy (DBT), as developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan, is a type of therapy that helps patients reduce emotional reactivity and improve thought patterns and interpersonal interactions. The therapy, a hybrid of cognitive-behavioral therapy and tenets from eastern philosophies (primarily Buddhism), was created to help those who struggle with borderline personality disorder and chronic suicidality. However, DBT has also shown promise in the treatment of substance use disorders and eating disorders.DBT is a problem-solving, but accepting approach – one that helps patients change, while accepting them for who they are. This duality (or “dialectical” view) seems to sit well with many patients as they struggle on the road toward recovery. The avoidance of …
Eat-in-Peace Resolutions
Thank you to all who submitted your eat-in-peace resolutions. Below is a sampling of some of the intentions that generously graced my inbox in the last couple of weeks. Take a peek – they’re inspiring! Contest winners (whom I notified by email) were chosen blindly by a third party, and the books are on their way! I wish everyone the happiest and most peaceful of new years. . . .”My resolution is to live my life and not wait to do things when I get thin!! I have put off so many ideas thinking I didn’t deserve that till I lose weight.””Ultimately, I want to work on not judging everything I eat. For example, I want to stop the inner voice that seems to have a comment …
Breaking Bad Ads
Anyone see this gem of a Superbowl commercial?It’s titled, “All You Can Eat,” and yes, that’s the voice of Aaron Paul, of Breaking Bad fame.Any thoughts?Here are mine. Food is not a drug. It’s something we need to survive. Can people develop unhealthy relationships to food, behaviors that mimic addiction? Yes. But, this commercial doesn’t focus on that process or how to heal it. What it does do is villainize food – condemning items that are glazed, fried, baked, iced, etc. The images are presented at a frenetic pace, with food portrayed as harmful and repugnant as the blue product Paul’s character helped produce.The ad ends, “No one’s telling you what to do. You can stop whenever you want. Well, sort of. . . You …
Celebrity Weightloss
Last week, the media seduced us with the headline, “Kirstie Alley Slim Again.”Is anyone still buying this?As msn.com writes, “Kirstie Alley is no stranger to a diet. The 63-year-old star has been thin, fat and thin again more times than we can count.” Apparently, Alley recently lost 50 pounds. Again.So, why are we still reading the headlines, listening to the news clips, and studying the before and after pictures?Diet work – until they don’t. Celebrity weight-loss roller coasters are perfect examples of what professionals have come to to call the “weight-cycling industry.” What if someone like Kristie Alley, Marie Osmond, or even Oprah, who recently told Barbara Walters she still needs to “make peace with the whole weight thing” …
The Best Worst Question of All
I was recently etroduced to the work of Dana Shavin. Her memoir, The Body Tourist, chronicles her experiences following her recovery from anorexia. I asked her for any insights she might have for my readers about illness and recovery. Here’s what she had to say:The Best Worst Question of AllIt’s a great question. And a terrible one.“What’s the most important thing you learned in your recovery from anorexia?”I was asked this not long after I left the hospital, by a friend of a friend who wasstruggling with depression. It was a great question, because it made me think hard aboutwhat things had really helped, and why and how they helped. And it was a terriblequestion, because it asked that I hang my recovery on …
2015’s NEDAwareness Week
Drumroll for NEDAwareness Week!The theme for this year’s event, happening next week (February 22nd -28th), is “I Had No Idea.” Programming centers around helping people “get in the know” toward the goals of improved education and awareness and early intervention and prevention of these devastating illnesses.I’ll be participating in the NEDA panel, “‘I Had No Idea!’ Athletics and Eating Disorders: What Fitness Professionals Need to Know and How They Can Help” on 2/24 in New York City. Later in the week, I’ll be a guest in a NEDA Twitter chat: “A Slippery Slope: Identifying Disordered Behaviors Before they Go Too Far” along with Cristin Runfola, PhD and author, Jenni Schaefer. You can follow my Twitter (@drstaceyla) for more information on these events.Want to …